Friday, June 05, 2015
Here's a list of the best places to get married in Colorado Springs. All of these locations host ceremonies and receptions. If you're looking for both church and reception hall, then I have suggested a church pairing for each of these Colorado Springs wedding locations. At the bottom of this post additional locations are listed that are also really wonderful. Click on the name of any location for more detailed wedding information. Thanks, and I hope you find this helpful! — Sean
Garden of the Gods Club
One of my absolute favorite wedding locations is the Garden of the Gods Club. Its spectacular beauty is an uninterrupted view of the Garden of the Gods and Pikes Peak. In this wedding photograph, above, Mamie and Nick walk together in front of a stunning landscape. This location is perfect for small to mid-size weddings and is centrally located. With a larger wedding (200+) ask about a tented event on the south lawn where this photograph was made. Hands down the best view in the city! Suggested church pairing: Sacred Heart Catholic Church
There really isn't anything quite like The Broadmoor. It is a AAA Five Diamond and Five Star Resort with luxury accommodations and unbelievable service. Think first-class spa, a half-dozen of the best restaurants you will ever enjoy, three 18-hole championship golf courses and a handful of beautiful settings for a wedding in Colorado Springs. The Lakeside Terrace is one of my favorites ceremony locations. In this wedding photograph, above, Katie and Justin share a moment during their unity sand ceremony on the Lakeside Terrace. Flowers by Design Works. Suggested church pairing: First Christian Church
Colorado Springs Fine Arts Center
The Colorado Springs Fine Arts Center is located in the heart of Colorado Springs. It recently underwent a renovation and addition that allowed the Fine Arts Center to become the premier downtown wedding location in Colorado Springs. The museum is known for its architecture and its extensive art collection. It also offers live theater, art programs and it has a wonderful restaurant and bar. In this wedding photograph, above, Caitlin and Emilio enjoy their first dance in the new wing of the museum. A caterer is required. Suggested church pairing: Shove Chapel
The Hillside Gardens is characteristically Colorado! It is both a plant nursery and a wedding location. It offers a ceremony site with a view of Pikes Peak and an outdoor pavilion for caterered receptions. Larry, the owner, has a knack for collecting things and whenever I am there, there is always a new art piece in the garden. Hillside Gardens also sports the best old-truck-turned-into-bar that I know of and plenty of firepits for the evening. It's a great place for a party and for romance. In this wedding photograph, above, Emily and Billy steal a kiss during their Hillside Gardens reception. Suggested church pairing: Any local
Glen Eyrie Castle
The Glen Eyrie Castle is a real discovery. It is an honest-to-goodness castle (now a retreat center) that sits in a secluded valley just a couple miles from downtown Colorado Springs. The castle was built by the founder of the city and is now enjoyed by anyone who would like to visit. The Glen has it all, incredible grounds, friendly service and a stunning sense of the history of Colorado Springs. The Glen Eyrie does not serve alcohol, but I've never attended a wedding there where everyone wasn't having fun. In the wedding photograph, above, Sigrid and Brock enjoy a moment together on the castle grounds prior to their reception. The Rolls Royce is courtesy of DDG Classics. Suggested church pairing: Air Force Academy Chapel
More of the best places to get married in Colorado Springs: Cheyenne Mountain Resort, Colorado Springs School, The Club at Flying Horse, La Foret, The Pinery, Briarhurst Manor, Phantom Canyon, The Cliff House, Spruce Mountain Guest Ranch, Cheyenne Mountain Country Club
Wednesday, May 20, 2015
Who doesn't want their wedding to be perfect? Here’s a secret that every wedding pro knows and you may not: The better your wedding schedule is, the more perfect your wedding day.
A well-thought-out schedule is absolutely crucial to the success of your wedding. When things get messed up (and things always will) the schedule that you thoughtfully created before the day-of will save your… ahem, day.
Some schedules can be very simple and others more complex. For this post, I’m going to assume three things. First, you’re getting ready at a local hotel. Second, you’re marrying in a church. Third, your reception is at the hotel where you’re getting ready. Obviously, if your ceremony and reception are in one location, then your schedule is going to be much simpler. But let’s get complicated out of the way first.
Here’s how to make the best wedding schedule you can to ensure your wedding day is unforgettable - in a good way - for you and your guests.
The first rule to creating a good wedding schedule is this: Everything you’re expecting to do on your wedding day must be accounted for. Following this rule, the first step is to create a rock-solid timeline of your wedding day.
How To Build A Timeline
When putting a timeline together, I like to start with the planned ceremony time and work backward. By working backward from the ceremony time, which is one of the first decisions you make about your wedding day, you can then “fit” everything else neatly into place around that.
Let’s say your wedding ceremony is scheduled for 4:30 p.m. at a local church and you don’t want to be seen by your guests before the wedding. Then you must be at the church and in your waiting room AT LEAST 1/2 hour before the ceremony.
Below are two sample timelines. The first time-line is for the couple who decides not to see each other before the ceremony. The second is for the couple who decides to see each other before the ceremony and do most of their pictures beforehand. Later in this post I’ll talk about the what happens after the ceremony. Especially important for couples who don’t see each other, since many of the most importrant photographs will have to be done afterwards.
Also, for the purposes of brevity - this is going to be way too long already - I’m not including what is essentially a duplicate schedule for the groom. The times are a little different for the groom and the groom usually arrives at the church before the bride, if they don’t see each other, nevertheless it’s the same, same.
Finally, if you don’t see each other, it’s a good idea to have two photographers; one to photograph the bride getting ready and the other to photograph the groom getting ready. But an experienced wedding photographer should be able to do both.
Wedding timeline (working backwards!) where the bride and groom DO NOT see each other before the wedding:
4:30 p.m. Wedding ceremony
4:00 p.m. Bride and bridesmaids arrive at the church and goes to waiting area
3:50-4 p.m. Bride travels to the church
3:20-3:50 p.m. Dad sees daughter + pictures with family and bridesmaids at the hotel
3-3:20 p.m. Bride receives her flowers + bridal portrait in her suite
2:30-3 p.m. Bride puts on her dress, bridesmaids must be dressed and ready to help.
12:30-2:30 p.m. Hair and makeup. Bride should be the first to do both!
12:00 Bride and bridesmaids check into the hotel. Lunch is delivered to the room.
Wedding timeline where the bride and groom DO see each other before the wedding:
4:30 p.m. Wedding ceremony
4:00 p.m. Bride and groom arrives at the church. Bride goes to a waiting area. Groom greets guests.
3:50-4:00 p.m. Wedding party travels to the church
3:25-3:50 p.m. Immediate family photos
3:00-3:25 p.m. Wedding party pictures
2:40-3:00 p.m. Bride and groom pictures around the hotel grounds
2:30-2:40 p.m. Private moment
2:15-2:30 p.m. Dad sees daughter + pictures with Mom and Dad
2:00-2:15.p.m. Bride receives her flowers + bridal portrait in her suite
2:15 p.m. Bride puts on her dress, bridesmaids must be dressed and ready to help.
12:15-2:15 p.m. Hair and makeup. Bride is the first to do both!
12:00 Bride and bridesmaids check into the hotel + lunch is delivered to the room
Look carefully at these two timelines. What do you notice?
First, the timeline covers 4-1/2 hours and the hair and makeup take up nearly half of that. It doesn’t have to be this way. But if you’re planning on styling? Then be prepared to spend much of the time before your wedding getting it done. In my experience, hair and makeup is a necessary step. Pro tip: The bride should be the first to finish both hair and makeup, if not, and things run late? Bad things happen.
Second, there's more time available before the wedding when you don't see each other. But the flip side? You have to make time for photographs after the wedding and, while guests are willing to wait, if you take to long? It will be remarked on.
In either case the photographer MUST be quick. They have to make all of the images you want in the time that’s available to them. It’s an understatement, to say the least, that it takes skill and experience to get good photographs quickly WITHOUT making the bride and groom or their families feel rushed. In light of other necessities on a wedding day? The skill and experience of your photographer counts for a lot.
How To Create A Shot List
The next pillar of a good wedding schedule is a shot list. Making a shot list shouldn’t be that difficult. If you’ve hired a good photographer, then you can count on them to make sure your formal photography, candid photography and detail shots will all be done well. Although, if it’s something you really care about? By all means, put it in your shot list!
First part of your shot list is to identify your most important family and friends. I always want to know the names of parents, grandparents and siblings at every wedding. And I will ask you. I also want to know who is in your wedding party and what their relationships are to you. Finally, I want to know which extended family will be attending the wedding and whether you would like photographs with them.
At the top of your timeline, make a list of these people. By the way, everyone you work with will appreciate this information. Often, this is the first and only time we will ever meet them and by addressing them properly the experience will be more memorable for everyone. Pro tip: Ask your photographer to attend your rehearsal so they can get to know your cast of characters and make a proper introduction before the wedding day.
In your timeline, make a list of family groupings either before or after the wedding. My timelines always include this information. Here’s an example, not a suggestion. Make your own. This is just to give you an idea.
Wedding shot list where the bride and groom DO NOT see each other before the wedding:
4:30 p.m. Formal photographs in the church
• Bride w/bridesmaids
• Groom w/groomsmen
• Bride and groom with bride’s immediate family
• Bride with bride’s parents
• Bride and groom with groom’s immediate family
• Groom with groom’s parents
• Bride and groom w/bride’s grandparents
• Bride and groom w/grooms grandparents
• Bride and groom with both immediate families
• Formal of bride and groom in the aisle
• Bridal portrait in the aisle
That’s a lot of great photographs to be made in 30 minutes. Would you agree? Another instance where the skill and experience of your photographer goes a long way. You want get to the party on time so your guests don’t wonder what’s taking so long. Pro tip: Break these groupings up into two or even three time periods throughout the day. For instance, wedding party and immediate family before the wedding, extended family for the cocktail hour and a 15-20 minute portrait session for the couple either before or after the wedding.
Common Mistakes To Avoid
Mistake #1 Forgetting to tell people exactly when and where to arrive. A good florist, for instance, should ask you about the location and arrival time for your bouquet. But if they don’t? Then make sure to tell them. When I have to photograph the bride without the flowers it disappointing and no, I can’t just photoshop them in for you. Avoid this mistake with a good timeline and good communication with all of the professionals you work with whether it’s the florist, the caterer or the DJ or the band. Everyone should be on the same page when it comes your timeline. Pro tip: In your timeline, include a list of cell phone #’s for all of your wedding professionals.
Mistake #2 Running late. The main reason for this? Fear, worry and excitement. It might be a fear of being photographed or a worry you will forget what to do or you’re simply overwhelmed with excitement for the day. Whatever those feelings are will cause you and everyone else to be late. Catching up always lands in the photographers lap, as you can imagine. It’s easy and convenient to blame it on your photographer. But she’s trying hard to be quick and to make pictures that are worthy of your wall and you invested a lot of money into these photographs. Avoid this mistake, phone a friend or a planner! Find a friend or hire a wedding planner to help you keep things going smoothly and to gently remind you how much time you have and where you need to be next. Having a friend or planner, who knows the timeline, keep an eye on things is huge. Pro tip: Since you've already created your schedule, hire a planner for the day-of only.
Make Things Even Better Using These Simple Tricks
Remain calm. Start your wedding day in neutral. Allow yourself to let the day build instead of running out of the gate. You can still be excited, but have an inner dialogue of appreciation for the time you’re spending with your family and friends
Breathe. When you find yourself in a panic focus on your breath. Try to keep it slow and relaxed and you will find yourself quickly calming down and ready to move on to the next thing.
Listen to your photographer. Ah, there it is again and it may sound trite, but a good photographer is worth their weight in gold. You must be able to trust them and let them be your guide. Why? Because they’ve been here before and will spend more time with you than anyone else on your wedding day.
I hope this helps you create a wedding schedule that accounts for everything you do on your wedding day. If you take the time to do this, you will be guaranteed a smooth, relaxed and memorable wedding. And when something goes wrong (and it always does) your schedule will be your guide through troubled waters:)
May You Have A Happy And Joyous Wedding Day! — Sean
Wednesday, May 13, 2015
It used to be our practice to provide high-resolution digital image files on DVD or USB flash drive to our clients after every job. If you were a wedding client, you could expect upwards of 900+ high-resolution digital images delivered to you after your wedding day.
It was a deluge of pictures. So many pictures, in fact, that rarely did our couples print anything but the most basic ones i.e. a family photo, a portrait of them together and and maybe a picture of the cake.
Some clients never returned for their wedding album. When they did, there were so many pictures to decide on it took several years! to finally pick their selections.
But the main reason why we stopped giving digital image files away? It made us look bad.
Recently I was visiting one of my favorite clients at their home. I photographed their wedding and now I'm photographing their growing family. Several of my pictures were framed on the wall and virtually all of them were printed poorly. I was quite embarrassed by the way they looked, so I reprinted the pictures for free and dropped the new set off with them later in the week.
We can print our pictures better. Actually, a lot better, than our clients can.
As a photographer, I’ve given thousands of digital image files to my clients. And here’s the lesson I’ve learned: Whatever is gained by having all of the pictures from a shoot, is quickly lost in an overwhelming number of choices and poorly printed photographs.
So, while many wedding magazines tell couples to make sure to get all of the images from their photographer. What they’re not saying is just as telling. Did you make sure to get a final product that is beautifully printed and displayed?
We care enough about the final product we give to our clients that we're not going to let it slide anymore. Now, this is not to say we don’t provide digital files to our clients. We still do. But now they come in measured doses. They can be purchased individually as a download from our website or as a “digital pack” - a selection of pictures you can download as a set so you get only what you need.
And if you’re planning on a large print? Please order it from us. You’ll be thrilled and I will avoid any embarrassing run-ins again. — Sean